Tardy Thursday

It is getting to be the weekend. I love the anticipation of the weekend, of the rest, of time alone, of time to think things out.

One of the things I have been thinking about, especially with Danny’s posts on being Trustworthy, keeping time and appointments, keeping promises– all old fashioned values, for many of us and I started thinking of what I am guilty of and which might go against my own principles. I like to say that I am a person of integrity and truthfulness but I think it is more often that I want others to be that way to me but sometimes I do cut corners, especially when I think no one is looking.

Working at this reputed University for about a year now, I have come to disregard some of its rules. The work time starts at 8 am or 7:30, depending on which schedule you have agreed upon with your supervisor. For me, it is 8 am. These days I tend to slow down a bit, do more household chores, shower leisurely, spend some time gardening, prepare lunch and before you know it, it is 8 am- the time I need to be at work.


I have been taking liberties with my promises to the institution, its true. I start from home after 8 am, and roll into my office around 8 :30-8 :45 am and this may be later, if my supervisor is on leave. I cringe when I write this but honestly if she wasn’t there to keep tab, I think I would have gone back to bed and shown up at office even later.


I have become so used to this routine that I now find excuses to keep doing this. One of my excuses is that my supervisor comes to work at 9 am or thereafter and very few of my colleagues show up on time, they look out for those who leave office early rather than those who arrive late, jammed traffic, household chores- and so many more.

And Thursdays are the worst- because it is the end of week here and everyone is rather relaxed with time.

Now that I think of it, being late to work is kind of like breaking a promise made to my institution,which has been gracious enough to give me a job and a good, steady income. In the long run, it would go to show that I am dishonest, take liberties with time and ultimately am not trustworthy. Above all, it would show that I am not a person of integrity.



Which come to think of it, I am not- then, what is the point writing this up on my C.V in big, bold letters ?


Who am I being dishonest to ? My institution, my supervisor or my own self ?

Have you ever been un-trustworthy ? What have you done to correct it, if so ? Would you be trustworthy only if you are being watched over ?


Sunshine Blogger Award

One of my nominees, Misty very kindly accepted my nomination and here’s her two cents for this award.
Thank you, Misty.



Thank you Susie for nominating me for the Sunshine Blogger Award. Susie is great at networking and always comments and asks great questions.

The Sunshine Blogger Award Rules

  • Thank the person who nominated you!
  • Answer the 11 questions you were asked.
  • Nominate 11 other bloggers and let them know they were nominated.
  • Ask the nominees 11 questions.

The 11 questions Susie asked:

  1. What is your favorite color? This is tough but I’m going to say pink.
  2. Does the color of your clothes reflect your mood for the day? Nope.
  3. What do you do when your mood is off- the-mark? Work out! It clears my head.
  4. Why do you blog? I’m really passionate about fitness and want to share it with others!
  5. What sort of blogs do you like to read? Anything positive!
  6. How do you select the blogs you would follow? If it’s positive or if the blogger has made…

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Sunshine Blogger Award



I have been nominated for the Sunshine Blogger Award by Sabrine from incahootswithmuddyboots. Sabrine writes about the recipes she enjoys tasting, cooking and sharing, which are mainly hot and spicy foods. I would say like Anne of Green Gables that she is a “kindred spirit” because like me she constantly works towards becoming fit( a new fad with me), enjoying hot and spicy food, observing nature , enjoying winter and summer alike, loving plants and her inherent honesty. She is an ardent photographer ( check her blog) and loves watching good movies. Where she would differ from me would be that I am an early bird- wake up early and sleep very early. She works hard in the garden and enjoys gardening, just the way I do.

The Sunshine Blogger Award Rules

  • Thank the person who nominated you! Thank you, Sabrine
  • Answer the 11 questions you were asked. ( answered below)
  • Nominate 11 other bloggers and let them know they were nominated. ( nominated below)
  • Ask the nominees 11 questions. (thinking them up, just this moment)

The questions Sabrine asked me:

  1. Dream vacation! Where would you go? I would love to go to the Austrian or Swiss Alps or perhaps the French Pyrenees and lose myself there. If I don’t see any one I know from my previous life, I would be very, very, happy. This would be my dream vacation.
  2. Which book are you reading at the moment? Having run out of books of fiction and others, I have returned to the Bible to try and learn its teachings, things I had been taught and believed in, till that time, I walked away.
  3. Who is your favorite poet? Mine would be William Wordsworth- admire his love for nature and the various poetic devices he used for his poems- particular favourite- The Daffodils
  4. What is your favorite time of day to write for your blog? During the daytime
  5. Do you have any pets and what kind? I have a cat indoors and 6 outdoor stray cats but I am a dog lover and prefer a dog any day.
  6. How many and which languages do you speak? I think I can speak 4 languages.
  7. What is your favorite flower? My favourite flower would be red roses. I love red.
  8. Do you prefer the beach or the mountains? The mountains any day.
  9. What type of music do you like? Old English songs.
  10. Which fruit do you enjoy eating the most? Grapes
  11. Dark chocolate or milk chocolate? Milk chocolate

My 11 nominees for this award.

  1. Amitav choudhary : He is an ardent blogger and loves poetry. He posts poems almost every day.
  2. Fabiola : She writes about authentic Mexican food and Mexican life with a touch of poetry.
  3. Valentina : Valentina writes about the world – she is a global citizen and we need more like her.
  4. Bethany : She is a fitness enthusiast and likes to write about her fitness journey.
  5. Courtney : She is another blogger who loves fitness and shares her journey with candor.
  6. Aayusi : Aayusi is a romantic at heart and a student of the world in real. She loves things that excite and stimulate the mind and loves to connect to new friends.
  7. Susan : Susan is a real writer, meaning, she is a professional- she is an academic and loves to read as much as she writes.
  8. Misty : Misty writes a blog called the bikinibookworm- she loves books as much as I do and in addition loves fitness- having been a fitness enthusiast almost all her life, now she shares her wisdom and her blog .
  9. Janice Wald : Janice is a famous blogger and she can solve all your blogging issues, if only you would ask her.
  10. Small Changes for life : She blogs about how to reach  nirvana through making small and sustainable changes in our lives.
  11. Debbie : Debbie is a dear friend and loves to blog about her weight loss journey. She is a strong believer and is kindness personified.

Now for my 11 questions :

  1. What is your favourite colour ?
  2. Does the color of your clothes reflect your mood for the day ?
  3. What do you do when your mood is off- the-mark ?
  4. Why do you blog ?
  5. What sort of blogs do you like to read ?
  6. How do you select the blogs you would follow ?
  7. Does offensive language on a blog post put you off ?
  8. What would romance mean for you ?
  9. Write a small poem about yourself .
  10. Do you make New Year Resolutions.
  11. Do you enjoy changes in your life or do you shy away from them ?

I hope my nominees accept.


Tuesday- Tell a tale

I am dealing with a cat crying out loud to be let outside. I think that because I have had children and think of my cat as my child, I want to protect him from the feral cats outside. But the past two days, I have been sick and indoors- so he knows I am at home and he’s using this as an excuse to whine and ask for an outdoor treat.

I have had cats before and know that once let out, they loathe coming in. The outdoor cats are not so and constantly look for ways to come into the house- talk of the grass being greener on the other side.

Today I let Sunshine out for about 15 minutes- the worst 15 minutes of my 4 year life with him. He was hesitant at first and with baby steps, walked to the neighbour’s lot, where he potted and smelled the vegetables grown there. I left my door open, in case he wanted to come in on his own. But he didn’t.

After about 15 minutes, I went to look for him in my neighbour’s plot and found him looking lost among some cabbages they grow there. He allowed me to pick me up but spat at me- perhaps out of fear or because he didn’t want to be caught.

Now I am dealing with a cat, which is crying his heart out.  Did I do wrong ?

cat crying

Exploring new avenues to increase blog traffic

I have a blogging friend –Janice Wald– who through her constant practice and endeavour has become a blogging expert. She advises, follows, talks to and constantly directs new bloggers into blogging ways. For her blogging is her life time’s passion.

She recently wrote a post on how to increase visits, follows, comments to your blog. I benefit a lot from these tips and I hope you do too.

Please visit her blog and read her post and other posts for excellent blogging advice.